This is definitely one of the most misunderstood questions. It seems like everyone thinks that finding their twin flame is going to bring the ultimate experience of happiness, passion, and joy in their relationship. That is absolutely, 100% FALSE.
On the contrary, the twin flame journey is one of the hardest things you can possibly do. The reason it’s hard, at least at first, is that you think you’re in a relationship. Relationship. Or you think you’re supposed to be and it’s not working for some reason. And as long as that is your focus, as long as you are trying to get your divine counterpart back in your life or back in your bed, you are doing it wrong. And you are going to struggle like crazy.
The twin flame journey is actually about your own spiritual awakening. Yup. That’s it. Nothing more. Nothing less.
When you make this journey about your divine counterpart, you are missing the boat entirely and you are going to stay in that looping addictive energy that tortures you day and night. You’re going to stay in a dark night of the soul instead of having the ego death you need to have and coming out the other side transformed.
Honestly, most people who think they are in a twin flame relationship are not. But those who are will only be able to get on with the journey and magnetize their twin back in by getting off the merry-go-round of trying to get the twin back, and instead focus on unity consciousness. Internal union. Not external. Internal union with your own self. Unconditional self-love. Do that, and forget about your divine counterpart. If they come back, great. If not, you are still ascending. You are still becoming what your soul truly wants to become.
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